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Worship: More Than Music

by Paul Baloche

My role as a worship leader carries a tough responsibility, one that requires my heart to be in a place
of worship before Sunday morning. Yet just like everyone else, I deal with allergies, taxes, bills, the
emotional needs of my family.

I have tried to cultivate worship in my family over the years by examining my own walk with God
and asking myself if I am modeling authentic worship to my children. I am keenly aware that many
times the next generation looks at the preceding one and points to the obvious spiritual contradictions.

Day to day, I look for opportunities to point out the hand of God, either in a glorious sunset, a striking
cloud formation or an animal in the backyard. I encourage my family to appreciate the beauty in the
moment and connect that moment to the Creator behind it.

At times we break out the guitar or sit around the piano and sing together. Sometimes we sing worship
choruses and sometimes we sing songs from the radio. When we worship God with music, we are
simply using a tool to help us connect to a living God. The Psalms provide all kinds of ways in which
we can demonstrate or express our worship, such as singing, clapping, kneeling, dancing and playing
musical instruments.

Yet worship is much more than 20 minutes of singing at a church service. What I try to model for my
family and my church is that worship has more to do with relationship than it does with music. It is
impossible to worship a living God — sacrificing our bodies, emotions, minds and hearts — and not
have it affect all our relationships.

Of course, I go through seasons when life is hard and relationships are difficult. On occasional
Sundays, I stand before my church and just go through the motions. But I can’t do that for long.

We can’t separate worship from relationship any more than we can separate intimacy from a healthy
marriage. Just as intimacy wells up from the mutual respect and love within a marriage, worship
springs from a surrendered and grateful heart.

I have little patience for ungratefulness. I remind my family daily how blessed and fortunate we are.
Psalm 103:2 says it best: “Praise the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits.” Remembering
God’s blessings is the key to a worshiping heart — a heart that desires to live a life of worship
through singing, serving, loving and obeying.

We can decide to do these things and let the overflow affect others. Our example will remind those
around us that there is a God worth knowing and that we were created for His pleasure and purposes.
In that sense, we can all be worship leaders by practicing gratitude and walking in fellowship with
God.

This article first appeared in the May, 2008 issue of Focus on the Family magazine. Copyright © 2008
Paul Baloche. All rights reserved.